Hiring a Wedding Consultant

A good planner is a specialist who is creative, clever, and connected.

A good planner is a specialist who is creative, clever, and connected.

Hiring a Wedding Consultant: Good Move or Bad

In the article, “Wedding Planners? I’ve Seen Them in Movies…,” you read about wedding consultants and what they can do to help you. A competent coordinator can be a huge boon for the happy couple, but a planner can also be a huge drain on their wallets. So should you hire a wedding planner or not? The answer is an enthusiastic maybe! Hiring a wedding planner depends on many factors, which the couple and perhaps their families need to weigh carefully.

One of the primary benefits of a wedding consultant is the stress that is taken off the bride on the actual wedding day, so she can relax a little and enjoy her big day, knowing that all the details are being handled. A wedding consultant is great when you need assistance with planning, running errands and making calls for your wedding.  Think of the time a couple could save when planning a wedding which can be an overwhelming and psychologically exhausting job. Wouldn’t it be nice to have help, especially when you and your fiancé are busy with your jobs and have frantic schedules already?

A talented wedding consultant will bring their experience and connections for your use and hopefully make the whole process run smoothly and at a lower cost.  Wedding consultants in Dallas are on top of the local situation and know what vendors to use and what venues work best.

However, you must ask yourself first if there is room in that all-important budget for the cost of a consultant. Even though coordinators should be able to help you trim costs, there is no guarantee that the savings will match the price. Second, ask yourself if you already have a good support system in place, with plenty of family and friends ready, willing, and eager to help. For brides good at organizing and designating assignments, planning the wedding can provide a time for bonding with future in-laws and having friends and members of both families getting to know each other.

Everyone is different and some brides feel that a wedding consultant is completely out of the question as they are not comfortable with someone they don’t really know taking control of their wedding day.  Others are concerned with hiring a wedding consultant and finding out that they are totally incompatible.  Or maybe the consultant is too pushy or difficult to deal with, and doesn’t take your needs and wants into consideration., who tries to take total control of the wedding plans, who is just plain unscrupulous and waiting to take advantage of you, or who just plain doesn’t do your job.

But don’t be overly concerned, just like any other vendor you work with, you will do a thorough interview with a potential wedding consultant and ask for and check out their references and past clients.  Ask your fiancé and your family for their input.   Your strategy should be to take your time and don’t let anyone pressure you to make a decision until you have had time to process the facts and your thoughts.

Do your research. Take a lot of time to think about it before jumping to a decision. Discuss it with your fiancé and your family. Ask friends and family members who recently married what they did and why. And finally, if you decide to go for it, carefully research and interview potential candidates before deciding which one to hire. Remember to also check with family and friends who have been married in the last little while and find out what they did for their weddings.  Or, if you were recently at a wedding that impressed you, contact the bride and asked her if she had a wedding consultant and if so ask for their name and number.

In summary, consider the benefits of hiring a coordinator to help with planning, making phone calls, running errands, and doing much of the work. Sounds great, huh? A planner can cut down on the amount of time a couple spends planning the wedding, and the task is, without a doubt, a monumental, time-consuming, and emotionally-draining mission. It’s nice to have all the help you can get. This is especially important if you and your fiancé are both work at stressful jobs, juggle odd schedules, or have hectic lifestyles already. The consultant would bring knowledge and numerous contacts to the table, which should help you to save money and complete the plans more easily.  (Coordinators in Dallas, for example, will have up-to-date news about Dallas wedding venues and vendors.) And without a doubt, the wedding coordinator helps to relieve stress on the day of the wedding, which allows the bride especially to have a more enjoyable day.

If you decide that a wedding consultant is the right thing for you and your wedding, you can trust your own good judgment because you have weighed all the facts and come to a decision that works for you.

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